Time and time again I have seen this scenario pop up. Girl meets boy, girl has sex with boy, girl and boy don't work out, girl likes his friend, and then girl has sex with friend hoping for a relationship to come. Believe it or not it happens a lot. What always surprises me is the girls belief that the second guy will actually take her serious.

One man, two women, and a just a bunch of drama. We see it all the time. Movies, TV, music, and unfortunately real life. These love triangles where women fight each other are all around you and in my opinion it's a damn shame. With so much more important things to be worried about many women find themselves more focused on battling with the "other woman". They will slander her name. Stalk and harass her on social media. Some even go as far as showing up at a woman's house for a confrontation that can lead to violence. All of this nonsense is going on but they both fail to realize something.

Does it feel like this whole "dating" thing sucks? Has it been a struggle with to make progress with the women you're interested in? Have you found yourself feeling like you just can't find a "good woman"? Well before you come to a conclusion you have to look in the mirror first. As men we have to be mindful that there may be things we are overlooking while in pursuit of finding a woman we can settle down with. Everything can't be "her" fault. There is a part we all play in our struggles and dating is no exception.

Valentine's Day is upon us and yet I'm sure many of the men have yet to figure out what they will doing (if anything at all) for their partner. If it was truly up to some men they would just say "Happy Valentine's Day", have some wild sex, and then call it a night. That may be enough for some women but for most you are going to have to do better than that.

"Why can't I find a good man"..."All men are dogs"..."Why does dating have to be so difficult?".  I hear this from plenty of women all the time. I'm going to leave the first two quotes alone for now but let's answer the last one. Dating is a mess because YOU make it that way. I'm not saying that the other party involved doesn't play their part in all of this.

We can give people plenty of tips and tricks on how to attract the opposite sex. Many are always looking for great ways to pull it off but in that process they  overlook some very important things. Most truly desire a successful relationship but a good foundation has to be in place in order for that to happen. I'm not talking success as in just staying together

To screw or not to screw, that my friends is the question. Should a woman be willing to have sex on the first date? Can she really expect to find love when she allows the man to "tap that" so soon? Will he respect her or simply place her in the "booty call" zone for eternity? I have heard many varying opinions on this issue. I have also seen many different outcomes.