Comments on: 5 Things to Consider When He Still Lives with His Mother

By: Nah

Nah — Fri, 06 Jan 2023 06:41:03 +0000

Lol @ CININHOUSTON

You want a man to take care of you and invite you into his home, but you wouldn’t do the same? Not saying either is right, but do you hear the hypocrisy of how you’re trying to shame someone for your selfish/one-way benefit?

By: Jane Doe

Jane Doe — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 23:33:49 +0000

@Dial911: You just described my bf/so. He was on his own previously but became ill/disabled. He does the best he can and is very thoughtful, helpful to his family and mine /me. It is stressful with the knowledge that the bigger financial load is on me especially because I, too, am disabled but I have children from a previous marriage and have to work. Disability for me wouldn’t keep a frog alive cuz they won’t pay enough. Social security didn’t count my teaching work for work credits or my contact jobs so I couldn’t live off what they paid even if they qualify me. My Significant other has just moved in with me and does everything he can to make my and my children’s life easier. He’s a gem.

By: Rachel Sanico

Rachel Sanico — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 22:22:54 +0000

I have a soon to be 29 year old stepson that lives with his mother. 2 BA IT degrees and 1 internship for work experience. He had an immediate job offer from my company where I was able to get an internship when he graduated from his second college experience. My company asked him to do a second internship and to meet the engineering global team he would be working with. He decided it would be a “waste of his time” to do a second internship even though the company was willing to work with his schedule as a remote employee and did everything they could to convince him. After college he decided he wanted to take a break. His break consisted of playing Xbox and Rune Scape all hours of the day and night for 3 years. Now he’s asking his dad (my husband) for money because the college fund is now below $200 and his mom is freaking out that she now has to pay for all the taxis, trains and bus fares as well as his daily eating out habits he adopted using the leftover college funds. Not understanding that his dad also has responsibilities and bills, he decided to cut off communication with his dad because my husband was asking him to justify what the money will be used for. His momma wouldn’t let him live with us because SHE didn’t feel we would know how to raise him up. (I have 3 kids and 2 of them in their early 20s bought their own home, the other will take over his dad’s estate when the time comes). My stepson is challenged because his mom doesn’t want him to leave her and he can’t leave her because she’s guilt tripped him with her emotional manipulations. It’s a sad situation but we’re not going to be enablers.

By: Maria sorpresa

Maria sorpresa — Mon, 28 Jun 2021 05:57:37 +0000

30 years old .
No money or if do money spend on junk .
No girlfriend ever because is to cheap.
Loves phones and cars .
Don’t know how to do any repairs around the house.

By: The UK Economist

The UK Economist — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 17:07:29 +0000

You do know that many men save plenty of money whilst living at home with parents, for example I saved £500k, in fact my friends also saved half a million whilst living with parents and I have never met a woman who even has savings who then judges men who are now financially successful by being smart. Until a lady can say at age 30 she has £500k in the bank I couldn’t care less if I and other individuals are judged for staying with family to build wealth. Now I own several properties and Is now financially free, many women can judge me but I and other men are financially successful by being smart and living at home.

By: Carrie

Carrie — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 02:59:38 +0000

I have been with a man who is 33 I am 48. When we met I had my own place great job and three grown children. After a year we decided to move into together. In an apartment that he managed so.. we only paid a small amount of rent split in half. I have become very close to his family working in their yard using my PTO time to take his mom to appointments and doctors appointments. She is in pretty good health but didn’t want to do these things on her own. I am independent, I found myself paying for extra things that he needs car issues registration things for his parents yard. I know I didn’t have to I did it because I wanted to. Spent a lot of time with his family him never with mine. The actions were never reciprocated or thought of. Last year the apartments were sold and they didn’t need a manager. He didn’t want to pay full rent so he said we are going to move in with his parents. I suggested I move into my own place and he move I. With them. He said no we needed to be together. It’s been a long ride. I have stopped taking her shopping and to doc appointments. I was enabling her and taking from my family and myself. She is always in our business and always telling us what we can and cannot do. He give me a kiss good night and she. Asked where is hers. We talked about moving out started looking to buy after looking for two months he changed his mind and said that he is saving more money living with his parents. I’m lost I know I need to move on and have my own place where my family can feel comfortable visiting and coming over. It’s taking it’s role mentally. I know he loves me but the thought of doing the wrong thing is scary.

By: Debbiev

Debbiev — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 05:00:48 +0000

A 46 year old man with a good job and a degree with his mom in good health and able to care for herself in fact she still shop. Cooks, and does his and his kids laundry .. she gets frustrated at age 76 she walks out of her own home leaving behind everything she owns .. right down to towels forks personal pictures ..

What’s the excuse for this one