Comments on: Is He Really Afraid Of Commitment?

By: R Moore

R Moore — Sun, 08 Jun 2014 23:26:00 +0000

My problem is I don’t understand when I’ve giving him a way out he won’t take it, he insists he loves me. But we went from spending every night together to not seeing each other maybe once a week. Now here claims he’s trying to get himself together because he doesn’t want to do anything to mess things up like he has done in the past. He s started out as being attentive and saying it’s his job to keep me happy but now all I do is cry from missing him. So many other things has happened in between what I’ve told you already. My mind says let go but my heart just won’t let me, I’m waiting for my heart to catch up with my mind but it seems to bee taking for ever.

By: Dorothy Metzger

Dorothy Metzger — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:22:45 +0000

And also if a man says from the beginning he isn't ready for a relationship than he means just that!! If that is what you want than don't waste your time!!!!

By: Sammy Blissful

Sammy Blissful — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:20:15 +0000

great word Ophelia

By: Kemi Ogunjimi

Kemi Ogunjimi — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:16:56 +0000

Wonderful!!!

By: Dorothy Metzger

Dorothy Metzger — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:15:00 +0000

So true, I just went through this, my heart is broken but after reading this I feel better!

By: Ophelia Marie La-Frae

Ophelia Marie La-Frae — Sun, 02 Feb 2014 22:14:37 +0000

I just want to add that he may not want to commit at all – to you or anyone else. But many ladies will invest their energy, emotions, time, heart, etc.. into a man just to have a male in thier lives. A lot of guys are just taking advantage of that. Why should he want to marry you if he gets everything from you without the ring? He knows you won't leave him alone and he can always get you to continue to do for him no matter what he does and what you say. He's not marrying you because you're allowing him to have all the perks without marrying you. You have to put your foot down and walk away. One main mistake that most women make is that listen to what guys say moreso than watching what they do. Actions speak louder than words. He can say the sweetest things but if his actions don't match up with that, then he doesn't mean a word of it. Guys are smarter. They don't pay attention to what we say. They watch what we do. We can tell them a thousand times that we're done with them and we're leaving if they don't "act right", but then we contradict that and let them back in and we continue to do the same things WE did before. So they know not to take our words seriously because that's what we're showing them. We have to get smarter, ladies. If that man won't respect you, then leave him alone or else quit complaining.

By: Natasha Stewart

Natasha Stewart — Fri, 06 Dec 2013 17:50:32 +0000

omg thats what he has be saying when i bring up marriage to him , we have child together im not going to wait much longer for him make that step.