Comments on: How to Say I’m Not Interested

By: Lainie

Lainie — Tue, 05 Apr 2022 22:43:49 +0000

Sorry I’m not interested or want to be available for a person giving advice that doesn’t know all the facts and going off your opinion

By: deedee

deedee — Sat, 30 May 2015 15:52:00 +0000

I have been having a problem with a man who approaches me in our local restaurant. When we first met I felt strange about him because as soon as he saw me, he veered over toward my table even though there were plenty of empty seats in the room. He sat where diagonal to me so he could keep looking without appearing to stare. When I was leaving I had to walk by him. He asked a question, I responded and left. Ever since then, every time I am in that restaurant he comes flying in there like he is on a mission to find me. I go in there at odd and unpredictable hours. This started to feel strange when I saw this pattern emerging. He even parked himself at my table w/o asking. If I am there with a friend, he will sit at the next table, facing sideways looking directly at the side of my face. He tries to work his way into the convo. He is not a kid, he is about 60-65. I mentioned to him that it felt like he had me lo-jacked, I wanted to know, because there were too many coincidences to be coincidental. I purposely sat behind him out of his line of vision when i saw him there one day. He turned around and saw me. When i left, he followed me up the street in his car. Calling to me wanting to give me a ride. I said no thanks and kept walking. He plays the innocent who gets offended if you ask what he is doing, like a “who me” ? person. I can tell him to let me alone and i am not interested, he could deny that he had any interest and doesnt know what i am talking about. My one friend who is usually there with me, also noticed what was going on. I would say I wonder if he is going to appear, and he would show up. We just wanted to have a place to go where we could speak privately and freely as friends. We were both being harmed by a mutual neighbor, so we had to leave our complex to speak freely and to get away from our neighbor. I enjoy it when i see the regular people and to greet them as acquaintances. That is all. I find him to be very intrusive. I dont know what to do. Can you give me a heads up on this situation? Thanks

By: Steven Gall

Steven Gall — Thu, 05 Jun 2014 00:18:53 +0000

My problem is my ex. I really want to be friends with her but am not in the slightest bit interested in anything more, but i fear if i tell her this she might cut me off, which i also dont want 🙁

By: Steven Smith

Steven Smith — Mon, 17 Feb 2014 01:19:13 +0000

mr right will find you take it easy

By: Terra Legette

Terra Legette — Fri, 08 Nov 2013 21:26:32 +0000

Thanks Keya, but not only will I know, he will know!

By: Ikeya Jackson

Ikeya Jackson — Fri, 08 Nov 2013 07:06:33 +0000

that's life cuzin you live and learn when god sends you your husband you will know

By: Terra Legette

Terra Legette — Thu, 07 Nov 2013 15:24:44 +0000

I had the biggest crush on a Co worker! He was all I thought about day and night. I was planning a wedding, looking for houses, even planning what our kids would look like. I had it bad! I made the mistake in confiding in a female coworker, she went and told him and he came to me and said because he is a man if integrity, he appreciate the compliment and I would make a great wife, but that he wasn't looking for a wife right now. He said he was trying to get a closer relationship with God. I was hurt, heartbroken, but relieved that he finally knew how I felt. That was two years ago, we still work together, but he is now saying someone from his church! I guess I just wasn't the one for him, the funny part is that I still love him……lol