Comments on: It’s Not About You https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/ Helping men and women experience happier, healthier, and more fulfilling relationships. Fri, 10 Sep 2021 08:03:05 +0000 hourly 1 By: Nana Ama Rheniel https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-529932 Fri, 10 Sep 2021 08:03:05 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-529932 Great post
I loved reading this article and it has really enlightened me
Tnxxx a lot Stephan

]]> By: Mary https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-8516 Wed, 12 Nov 2014 11:02:00 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-8516 This is really nice and I know this article is for me………… Now I know better.
It’s always easy when we don’t take things too personal.

]]> By: Natalie the Coach https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-6070 Wed, 11 Jun 2014 15:10:41 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-6070 Thank you for sharing this article. I am so glad it sparked some good stuff for you to contemplate and hopefully shift the love energy around! 🙂

]]> By: Lame Molatlhegi https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-6046 Wed, 11 Jun 2014 11:04:18 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-6046 great post…I loved reading it…challenged me to have a broader mind….

]]> By: Natalie Vartanian https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-5364 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 05:07:03 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-5364 I am so sorry to hear about the problems you are having with your partner Ralph. In the same way I described to Andrew, it is going to require time and the rebuilding of trust. Maybe start by asking your partner what it will take for her to trust you again? You will need to not just tell her but show her that you love her and do not want to lose her. Actions speak louder than words most of the time. Being open, honest and vulnerable is the key here. Speak from your heart for her to be able to really hear you. Hope this helps. XO

]]> By: Natalie Vartanian https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-5363 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 05:04:28 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-5363 Hi Andrew – that is a really good question. Of course there are going to be hurt feelings and there are consequences to every action (someone who is caught cheating will face repercussions, i.e. their partner losing trust in them). In those situations, time and a rebuilding of trust is what is needed to move forward. I have seen it happen and it takes a lot of dedication and work from both parties, but anything is possible if the intention and committed action is there. Hope this helped! XO

]]> By: Natalie Vartanian https://www.stephanspeaks.com/its-not-about-you/#comment-5526 Wed, 02 Apr 2014 04:57:00 +0000 https://www.stephanspeaks.com/?p=2363#comment-5526 In reply to Jessica.

Soooo glad this helped Jessica! How have things been since you have been more aware of this? XO

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