Comments on: You Can’t Make Them Love You

By: Derrick

Derrick — Sun, 19 Nov 2017 12:47:00 +0000

In reply to Heartbroken. I stopped a girl from committing suicide, I fell in love with her, she treats me badly but I still can't let go.

By: rosie

rosie — Thu, 17 Nov 2016 16:47:00 +0000

“A lot of people say you shouldn’t give up so easily in a relationship. You should fight through the issues and keep pushing forward. Stick together and work it out”

this was me… i made a commitment, i love him dearly, but everything you just said is the truth in my relationship… I am 68 yrs old and after 40 yrs of marriage, four children that i raised while he worked a 12-14 hr job daily and every other weekend for 38 of those years…he walked away and left me with no home, no money, no love and two of the four children applauded him for leaving so they too are gone from my life.

it is two years today ironically that he left and i am reading this. i wish i had someone to tell me these things 35 yrs ago…. i thought i was fighting to save our love, i approached him in every way possible to accept my needs and wants, but in the end it was all about his needs, he left to “find his happiness” and yesterday, he told me that he had just “grew to not love me anymore”. thank you for the words i wish i had heard years ago… i am still struggling with the fact that after 40 ys, he has no feelings or concern for me or for any memories we made and trying to find myself and start all over again at 68…. never in my life would i have believed i would be here like this today.

By: Nakiya Dakota Marie Santos

Nakiya Dakota Marie Santos — Fri, 04 Mar 2016 10:53:02 +0000

Recently I call myself loving a man who opened up about past aggressions from his childhood and I called myself the natural nurturer that I am loving him thru his pain giving him everything he never felt only for him to turn that hurt pain and anger on me he became a different ugly person overnight it was like I was sleeping with the Devil just with a beautiful face the one thing I held on to and that helped me recover from the hurt was that I had been there before from my past and refused to be mistreated misguided and unloved I had already come to the realization that he couldn't love me because he didn't love himself he was stuck I have so much going on for myself and I also realized he didnt bring anymore substance to me then I was already producing for myself he was just another sugar cube that got wet by water a dissolved waste I think God for giving me the proper signs and intuition to walk away with no regrets

By: Quentina Robinson

Quentina Robinson — Thu, 03 Mar 2016 23:38:44 +0000

I am so glad that an article like this has been shared. I have come to the realization and acceptance that divorcing my husband for the reasons listed above as well other issues is the best decision for me.

By: Natasha Renee Miranda Niggli

Natasha Renee Miranda Niggli — Thu, 03 Mar 2016 09:14:36 +0000

Tell me about it….the pain for this one is the worst amongst all in my years of being alive 🙁 It hurts so so bad….

By: Anetrice Saunders

Anetrice Saunders — Thu, 03 Mar 2016 09:04:05 +0000

Thank you!

By: Acquanita Thomas

Acquanita Thomas — Wed, 05 Aug 2015 22:06:01 +0000

Let go an let God