Comments on: Why I Go Through His Phone

By: Internet Person

Internet Person — Thu, 07 Apr 2022 05:46:12 +0000

Yea, not going through your spouses phone is cool until you find out your daughter has a sister from another woman, 20 years later. Going through his phone shows a lack of trust but what is called when you find out he’s been taking money out of the household to wine and dine other women and taking care of secret babies? I guess what’s done is done, screw the trusting wife who has lived a lie for the passed 20 years. At least he kept his privacy.

By: john smith

john smith — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 10:16:38 +0000

I never used to check my wifes phone tell she gave me a reason too… and tbh i fucking hate having to dig and play detective but as the old saying goes Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me

By: Lesley maid

Lesley maid — Tue, 19 Jan 2021 20:07:18 +0000

This isn’t normal , why do you have to check his phone? You could easily confront him if you think he is cheating , maturity earns better results and answers your questions best, checking his phone is way much stressful. Wtf !

By: Lesley maid

Lesley maid — Wed, 06 Jan 2021 17:29:51 +0000

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By: Nique

Nique — Sat, 02 May 2020 21:36:51 +0000

I believe that in a marriage, (because dating or just seeing someone is different), this is an investment, a life time, a forever commitment. We share financial information, credit, our bodies, children and a load of other things. And I don't have access to your phone? That's a deal breaker for me, especially if you were not locking it and then all of a sudden you are. I personally don't look when your leaving your phone around not really too worried about it. But when that behavior changes, that is for a reason. Let's be honest men lie, women to of course.. But most of them will do what they think they can get away with for as long as they can until their are consequences to their actions.

By: Brandon Ellisa

Brandon Ellisa — Fri, 01 May 2020 23:22:36 +0000

I seldom wonder why people do the things they do, but sometimes we also need to understand that some people are just broken inside and no amount of love can heal their broken insides. If you have doubts about your partners loyalty you should get in touch with VIRGO, she is a white hat hacker who can get you access your partner’s emails and messages provided that you show proof of marriage. She only attends to married people because she believes every married person has a right to know if their partner is being faithful or not.

By: RChanel

RChanel — Sat, 27 May 2017 16:53:00 +0000

Hello good people! So this article and discussion is very relevant to my current life, as I recently ended a seemingly promising relationship, which was exclusive due to the fact that I not only checked his phone, but also found that he’d recently added Tinder to his phone and had new matches on it. I confronted him as soon as I saw the notifications on his phone, and he was stunned. He really had no explanation for it except” I was just swiping”. Since that was his first response, and that he admitted that he had intended to meet someone while on a recent trip to Atlanta, I felt like the best decision was for us to end. He also admitted that he added it during our relationship and not before. Shortly after ending the relationship he began to flood my voicemail, my email, my video apps and calling my mom in the hospital….blaming me! He said that due to my insecurities that led me to check his phone, that that was the reason he added Tinder. That’s ludicrous because I only checked his phone that morning. It would be one thing if my intuition led me to check the phone and there was nothing there. But because I felt the intuition, it was the morning after having sex, I figured there was a good reason why I was led to check it. And I was right. Now that we’ve been apart for some time I still hold to that decision. I like this article because it validates that intuition and reaffirms what I already felt about myself, that I’m not crazy, or deeply insecure, but rather that I was following something that was leading me to the truth I needed to see. Do I miss him? yes. But not enough to put myself back in a relationship in which I had to go digging for potentially dangerous truth when all he had to do was be honest and say that he was still looking for something outside of our relationship.