Comments on: Why She Won’t Let Him See His Kids

By: Tiauna

Tiauna — Sat, 17 Apr 2021 06:31:27 +0000

What if it’s a female who’s been controlling the guy to not see or spend time with his kids from previous relationship ? I have 3 kids by 1 guy and I’m his first mother to his kids .. we broke up cause he had cheated on me and got another girl pregnant and then got me pregnant again for the last time when I never knew nothing about his second bm . the problem is that it just seems like hes not happy with her but he let’s him control him by not letting him see or spend time with our kids .. she knew that he had kids and she chose to be the second bm but why is she so jealous and wont let him contact me to contact our kids .. I’m very confused and lost on why he is letting her control him when she just wants him to put all of his attention towards their child which she is currently pregnant again with their second child and this will be her 3rd child total and me and him have 3 kids together .. idk if she has put a spell on him or whatever the issue is but he knows that he’s just not himself and he’s not happy

By: Moretsi Kereditse Karels

Moretsi Kereditse Karels — Mon, 23 Feb 2015 13:56:27 +0000

its true my partner is facing this thing with the babe mother who still wants him back

By: Silvia Jeannette Mejia

Silvia Jeannette Mejia — Sun, 22 Feb 2015 22:16:36 +0000

For the safety and we'll being of my children, and despite him being a deadbeat for the last 19 years, I set conditions of visitations….this man was more concerned with me being controlling than the chance to spend time with his children. Yes, I did need my children to be in a controlled safe environment..,.he chose to not agree, and I chose to not put his needs above their safety.

By: Erica Howard

Erica Howard — Fri, 22 Aug 2014 11:01:57 +0000

No parent should use their child /children as pawns because you mad at whatever,if that parent isn't hurting the chil or putting them in dangerous situation,then you're only hurting that child in the long run. My mother took that from me and my father died over 20 ago and I'd only seen him once. To this day I know nothing about him or my other family and I feel incomplete. Ben trying to find them but with no luck and my mother refuse to tell me or talk to me because I look like my father ,I got mistreated because she was angry with him.JUST CRAZY.IMMATURE.

By: Jacqueline Scott

Jacqueline Scott — Sat, 09 Aug 2014 11:08:44 +0000

Too true Crystal.

By: Jacqueline Scott

Jacqueline Scott — Sat, 09 Aug 2014 11:07:04 +0000

Jamilliah White I feel your pain. My son is 6 and his father has not paid him a penny since the day he was born other than 200.00 dollars. He was floating in and out and I stopped it. He is now not allowed the pleasure as it screwed up my kids head. It seems like mine your son has a caring loving mother. Represent yourself in court to go for the support on a regular basis and organise visits in a centre so that it is monitored and you dont have to deal with the loser if he doesn't turn up then cut all contact. I can support my kid and told him to keep his money which was never coming anyway. It allows you to get back on track and your emotions not to be in turmoil fighting with him all the time. It also channels you to be a better mother to your kid taking away all his drama……your kid one day will work out who was there for him they are pretty smart. Think of your sons emotional needs and yourself. He is not a father he is a waste of air space. Know you are doing a great job one parent is better than one good and one axxhole….

By: Kandi Ranson

Kandi Ranson — Sat, 09 Aug 2014 07:09:42 +0000

And here is the flip side of the scenario when visitations are denied.