Just had to say. For the last ten years I have held the attributes of those who have forsaken relationships with the vile, nagging, gynocentric, raging harpy that has become the western woman. And I am equally elusive of the gold diggers outside of the west. I have never concealed my intense dislike for this devolved creature, the “woman” and my willingness and want for nothing more than for her to be gone by sunrise. Especially since I have gained currency by disregarding her over the years to the point where I have accumulated real wealth. I am sure there are exceptions to the rule in the less than fair sex. And I am equally sure I will not chance on finding that small minority.
Only in the last year have I trolled the internet to see if perhaps others felt as I. By pure accident I fell into Sandman, Angry MGTOW and of course our favorite Aussie from MGTOW 101. I had never heard the term MGTOW and had no reason to convert as I had already witnessed “the light” of being completely non envious of my divorced friends or hopelessly wrecked friends who had long lost their files to cut through the bars of their self constructed prisons. I had been told in the past that the reason for my discontent was my rough childhood with my matriarch and aunts. To which I answer: 1) I have no discontent and am thoroughly delighted in my freedom 2) thank God for my rough childhood as I now have the cynical self defense skills to never fall into the vagina trap of miserable matrimony.
Alas though I have a name–finally. I do not hide in the shadows.

Stephan I agree with you. Compromising standards only tells a man that he can get what he wants without commitment.

He also may have retirement benefits at work when he retires that if you divorce him he may not want to split it with you if you divorce. He is thinking of the future, he may want to save his money more than save his family

Didn’t you read his comment? More women file for divorces than men . Therefore, he isn’t divorcing her, it’s the other way around. It’s true that men have a strong desire to have sex but women aren’t saints either. Most alimony payments are paid by men to women. Your case is unfortunate but there are far more men that have fallen prey to gold digging women. In your case, you can ask for a paternity test and then demand your husband to pay for child support.