Comments on: Side Chick: 7 Reasons Why She Is Just His Mistress

By: Melissa_K

Melissa_K — Sat, 02 Dec 2017 23:01:00 +0000

It’s not always the man pursing the side chick, I’ve seen it a lot when the woman knows the guy is married and she just keeps going after the guy until the guy gives in and cheats on the wife or girlfriend! I most definitely am not saying the that men are innocent but that there are women who know and go after the guy even when the guy tells them he is married. In this case the man and the other woman are both to blame, the only innocent one here is “the wife, the girlfriend, the main chick”

By: Rose Confetti

Rose Confetti — Mon, 30 Oct 2017 19:52:00 +0000

If it’s so much easier to confront 10 side chicks then it is to confront/leave your cheating husband/boyfriend/fiance then sure this is valid to those individuals who are just as “insecure” as the side chick to stay. I never understand why women tolerate cheaters and even make excuses for them. “Stay away from my (cheating) husband!”. Are you really that weak that you live defending your husbands cock from slipping into someone else? When you’ve compromised your standards of what you deserve (a faithful and honorable male) putting being in a relationship tainted with infidelity first it’s a weakness equal to a side chick who will take back a man after she found out he lied about being married. Dating a married man, staying with a cheating husband. Low key polygamist out here in these streets. How easy it to rage at a mistress because I’m too scared to leave/ too scared to start over. No deep analysis of a “side chick” is going to mansplain why you’re husband cheated and keeps cheating, theirs no translation. Sure side chicks are insecure but like someone said earlier, theirs plenty of emotional pimps feeding on these side chicks and even emotional pimps to their wives convincing them to take their sorry behinds backStand your ground and don’t compromise on what you deserve, ladies we need to do better and stop “allowing” bad behavior on both sides. Until that stops this will continue.

By: Rose Confetti

Rose Confetti — Mon, 30 Oct 2017 18:59:00 +0000

In reply to Idk Riley. Exactly, unfortunately theirs a lot of sexist misrepresentation of these relationships and plenty of bias but to think outside of the box doesn't fit the narrative. People really have to be careful with what their believing because I agree if this was about a man who was sleeping with a married woman no one would be blogging about how many things are wrong with him, they would talking about how the married woman was deeply flawed still, it's all about the narrative but women all always what's wrong in a relationship some how.

By: Scarlet

Scarlet — Sun, 15 Oct 2017 21:19:00 +0000

So what about this scenario? The man in question is your exboyfriend who you split up with because dealing with the other women got too much for you, but then you realised as the years went on and you were apart that you actually really loved him with a love so intense words could not do it justice. Then he comes back into your life but now he has a girlfriend who he is only with because she provides a roof over his head. Is it possible for a chronic Casanova to actually ever fall in love with someone, or are all women the same to him?

By: Tess Hanson

Tess Hanson — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 22:53:00 +0000

In reply to CeeCee.

My first husband I slept with on the second date. I divorced him. I was to young and didn’t love him. 7 years of not seeing him, I ran into him. He told me if I ever wanted to come back I could.

My second husband I slept with on the first date. His family was in shock cause he was never going to marry. He shock them all when he asked me to marry him.

When you sleep with someone shouldn’t matter. It didn’t in my case. I wasn’t considered a hoe. And I pushed my second husband into having sex that first night. He wasn’t going too. LoL. But he did shock me when he asked me to marry him cause I wasn’t thinking about it (for once). LoL.
5 years later…… happy!

By: ladyblack

ladyblack — Mon, 04 Sep 2017 15:27:00 +0000

In reply to tanner.

I agree it takes two. Can’t blame nobody. Men cheat because they make that decision.Women or men become side relations because they choose to. I recently connected back with my first love from middle school and high school
I was married but I been divorced for 7 years now. He still is married with young children. Mine are all grown and I am a grandmother. I often thought and dreamt about him over the years.After 20 years are feelings is the same. We love each other. I continue to see him for the rest of my life if I can.We our soul mates. Didn’t understand that when we were young . Now middle age it’s different and I am not a side chick.I am more of the girlfriend and mistress in the bedroom.What we feel is real and I believe I will have the top spot because of how we feel about each other.

By: LadyBlack

LadyBlack — Mon, 04 Sep 2017 15:15:00 +0000

In reply to thewife1908. You rite but sometimes you may run into your first love and you mite rekindle something great.And you both in your hearts realized you married the wrong people.Why can't you be together until you both are free.Cant be mad at side chicks side men . Love is a strong valuable thing when it revolves around the heart.You can't help who you fall in love with and who conquer your soul.