Comments on: Dating Your Friends Ex

By: Anya

Anya — Thu, 13 Mar 2014 13:12:00 +0000

In reply to Stephan Labossiere. This happened to me after a 5 yr relationship my 'bestfriend' got with my ex and got pregnant 3 months later and decided she would let me know how I was never anything to him. Not to mention me and her were friends for 3 years of my relationship. I watched her cheat on her husband, sleep with our homeboys, have a baby, divorce, drama with family, car accidents, rape, life. For her to turn her back on me and be with him. Something I would have never done. Her monthly boyfriends tried and I told her but never went for their weak bait.

By: Claudia Keisha

Claudia Keisha — Tue, 26 Feb 2013 01:56:00 +0000

Still a big NO NO to me.

By: Stephan Labossiere

Stephan Labossiere — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 18:50:00 +0000

In reply to Supathickinla28. Well there are some other issues at play. If you and the girl are no longer friends then she isn't really the issue here. Unfortunately that friendship was lost but if you were innocent of any wrongdoing then there isn't much you can do about that. Your struggle with moving forward with the guy seems to be more about what you just stated "fear of failure" and the negativity that surrounds you two even getting this close to begin with (due to his failed relationship with your ex-friend). So I would encourage you to examine what is contributing to this fear of failure. What are you holding on to from the past that it paralyzing you in the present.

By: Stephan Labossiere

Stephan Labossiere — Tue, 29 Jan 2013 18:46:00 +0000

In reply to Ayo. lmao! stop being stingy Ayo. just plain greedy is what you are : )

By: Supathickinla28

Supathickinla28 — Sun, 27 Jan 2013 15:46:00 +0000

Correction me and my girlfriend don’t kick it bc she blamed me and slandered my name. I ended up falling for her guy. The guy and I enjoy each other’s company but idk if a relationship is brewing.

By: Supathickinla28

Supathickinla28 — Sun, 27 Jan 2013 15:33:00 +0000

Im in a situation where my friend was constantly cheating on her ex and it got back to him. After they broke up he confided in me and we became close friends. She accused me of being a foul friend all along which wasn’t true bc I never looked at him that way during their relationship. Fast forward three months after they break-up and the guy and I are best friends but girl and I no longer talk becausethe guy are close but plutonic and I am uncomfortable around her, then as he and I get closer he shares his feelings for me. It wears me down because I have lost a long term relationship due to infidelity and I know what betrayal feels like. He and have become sexually involved and I don’t think I can truly look her in the eye and I can’t go forward with him into anything more bc of my fear of failure. Where am I on the list?

By: Mosesjustmoses

Mosesjustmoses — Fri, 18 Jan 2013 18:43:00 +0000

In reply to Outspoken_Beauty. Hello Ms. How are things going with you? I hope things turned out better for you.