Comments on: Good Guys: Should They Try To Be Bad Boys

By: nick

nick — Wed, 20 Apr 2016 05:06:00 +0000

In reply to Moses JustMoses. Its a shame guys like us dont stay young forever. We lose libido etc. Some chivalrous gentlemen wait until theyre almost 50 to get a woman....

By: VerySad

VerySad — Mon, 16 Mar 2015 00:05:00 +0000

Wow, just how many Loser women are out there these days?

By: Amelu Arts

Amelu Arts — Wed, 20 Aug 2014 12:50:00 +0000

I do think that Stephan Labossiere has some valid points. I used to be one of those men that always complained why women always go for Bad Boys, but it was only after I heard an explanation from a Dating Guru called David DeAngelo and later on from the Wing Girl Marni Kynris, that my mindset changed. In regards to myself, it was a lack of understanding of how attraction works for women, which is
what led to the “women like bad boys” mentality. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking that attraction works for women in the same way that it does for men. What David and Marni explained is that it is not that women like Bad Boys per say, but it is just that “Bad Boys” tend to typically display the qualities that women find attractive, ie: confidence, humor, assertiveness etc, which ironically “nice guys” don’t do. Nice guys are too busy trying to be nice, which are primarily the characteristics of a friend, which gets them put in the dreaded “friend zone” (I say dreaded because to a nice guy, that is how it is viewed when you want to be more than just friends with a girl).

Labossiere kinda eludes to the same argument as David and Marni where he says “In my opinion it’s not that women really like some of the a**hole behavior that comes with a bad boy, but there are certain traits in those guys that they do admire. Confidence, being assertive, and being unpredictable is what is really drawing a woman to those bad boys.”

So in conclusion, I think that it is an interesting article and a good read.

By: Dennis Brown

Dennis Brown — Wed, 20 Aug 2014 12:43:58 +0000

Ashley Rabinowitz The problem is Ashley is that a lot of those men don't fully understand what it means to be a man. Or more importantly what are the responsibilities of being a man. A lot of men also make the mistake of thinking that attraction works for Women in the same way as Men, which is not always the case.

By: Lew Thurston

Lew Thurston — Sat, 03 May 2014 20:53:00 +0000

In reply to TJ Harris. Damn right. Ive given many women an honest chance, but I dont give second chances. I dont reward BS.

By: Lew Thurston

Lew Thurston — Sat, 03 May 2014 20:47:00 +0000

In reply to Oje. It is sad and comical at the same time. At age 45, it becomes sheer regret/bitterness.

By: Tisha Mack

Tisha Mack — Fri, 04 Apr 2014 23:53:03 +0000

I agree! Mandie Deniece Jincks what we discussed about the difference between healthy assertiveness, confidence and those that have unhealthy traits & issues etc. that mask for one or the other….. it's not as clear as a good guy and bad boy…there are huge differences and variables and until you begin to spend time or get to know someone, you wont figure out exactly if one is compatible with you, in a healthy space to be with another person or not…… Smackola Dirtywormz – we talked about this yesterday…read this article and view the clip … 🙂