Comments on: She’s Not Interested But That Doesn’t Make Her A B**ch

By: Patricia Vallery Campbell

Patricia Vallery Campbell — Wed, 14 May 2014 22:14:53 +0000

A very valid point people are introduced in your life for various reasons and it's not always a romantic relationship

By: Angela D Burney-Smallman

Angela D Burney-Smallman — Sat, 11 Jan 2014 23:54:55 +0000

I love her point of view and yes he felt cut down by her rejection, young men need to no that its ok to be rejected, dont take it as a let down and become a woman hater, really she won that because she kept walkin and he was mousing making him look bad, Good point made!!

By: Marilou Martina

Marilou Martina — Fri, 10 Jan 2014 22:27:06 +0000

Good point of view. I guess most of the time when the guy is accompanied with his friends he might be slightly embarrassed. But then again it doesn'[t give him the reason to act like that towards the woman. Nicely written.

By: Chris Thompson

Chris Thompson — Fri, 10 Jan 2014 17:08:00 +0000

In reply to Loveconnection3000. But how do you balance that with your actual feelings..... And maybe the distinction you are making is your actually feelings come Into play later on down the line when you are in a relationship with that woman?

By: Norris Osby

Norris Osby — Fri, 13 Dec 2013 22:32:00 +0000

In reply to Loveconnection3000. man this comment is almost better than what Stephen put up

By: Loveconnection3000

Loveconnection3000 — Tue, 26 Nov 2013 19:53:00 +0000

This is an excellent post Stephan! You’re right on men decieving themselves because if the women didn’t look good then he wouldn’t have went up to her in the first place, so his ego is clearly bruised, lol and me being a man myself we’ve all dealt with this type of situation, where you get rejected and you “feel” like a loser, right? Well the keyword is FEEL, the reason why he even responded negatively is because he’s attached to the outcome, and he ties his ego/identity/self-worth to that one interaction. which doesn’t make sense at all because he will probably have hundreds more over his life time. This is what was taught to me at an early age, indifference or carefreeness. it really is the most powerful way of being. moving through your life un-attached to outcomes but committed to the process. also, he acted as if that was his last girl that he would ever talk to……lol it’s so subtle, but irrational when you think about it.

By: Terrill S. Charming

Terrill S. Charming — Sat, 11 May 2013 12:14:00 +0000

This really happens? You are talking about boys, not men.