Comments on: Who Should Pay On A Date

By: beccaA

beccaA — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 04:32:00 +0000

In reply to StephanLabossiere. Honestly I think you are right money is the goodies for men.

By: beccaA

beccaA — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 04:29:00 +0000

I dont like that this is being put out like all woman are trying to get materialistic things , or food , or whatever from a man and that they are using men because then I could simply say men use women for sex . Men go and use emotions for granted to get sex from women knowing very well that they arnt going to call her or be serious and put a ring on it .

Now I have been in both type of relationships and I believe that men should still pay. If its real he will pay. Now down the road I might consider treating him but I wont set a trend wherehe expects me to pay.

By: lle

lle — Thu, 25 Dec 2014 00:32:00 +0000

I didn’t appreciate this article. Firstly, if a man ASKS to take me on a date, I’m expecting for him to pay, period. However, I will offer to pay for my meal when the bill comes… If he allows me to spilt the bill, that will be my last time allowing him to speak to me; it’s that easy and my comment isn’t up for debate

By: RAS

RAS — Wed, 24 Dec 2014 18:03:00 +0000

If a man asks a woman out, he should pay. If it is a blind date, they should split the cost. I find that this takes the pressure off what I am expected to “give” when I may not even like him.
If we continue to date, I think a woman should always reciprocate. Invite him to dinner. Make dinner for him at home. Prepare a picnic lunch or dinner for two. Buy the wine. There are so many ways to bring things into a healthy balance. It used to be that men paid because women did not have careers. Those days are long gone and we need to adapt. If you really like a man, you should WANT to pay some of the time.

By: Divorced Kat

Divorced Kat — Tue, 03 Jun 2014 16:35:00 +0000

For the first 2-3 dates, I expect to be treated. There, I said it. It doesn’t have to be super fancy dinner, but I want to be treated like a lady and know that the guy is financially secure enough to treat me. I *might* buy a round of drinks after dinner, but that’s it. But after the first few dates, I am totally fine with taking turns.

By: Jacquline-Charlemagne Broyles

Jacquline-Charlemagne Broyles — Wed, 01 Jan 2014 01:11:25 +0000

I need a parade when I open my wallet… glitter and confetti…

By: David Eakin

David Eakin — Tue, 31 Dec 2013 19:08:32 +0000

I still like when you buy me a coffee and a cookie luv—–and you want a parade!!