I went through the exact same thing after my divorce. I turned to online dating as a way to cope and find Mr. Right. I had experiences which made me realize that I was not working with God’s plan. However I was looking for validation from these men. This all lead me to write my first book The Powerful Lessons I’ve Learned~Online Dating After Divorce.

Hello Stacy L.,
First sorry for your lost. I can relate to losing a husband as well. I been a young widow over 16 years and been believing God to send me another husband for years. It used to be a main prayer and I would get disappointed when friendships didn’t evolve to anything meaningful. However, I am grateful that God has and is my priority and seeking Him first. I know that if I abide in Him He will abide in me and I have been preparing and focusing on me to avoid settling for less. We deserve God’s BEST. I am worth the wait and you are too. It has been 7 years of celibracy and would have been 15 years except in 2010 I fell for another counterfeit and fell short of God’s glory. Only God and the Holy Ghost can keep us and restore us as well. This book was just introduced to me today and I plan to order it based on the fact it appears to be a great read; I want to support African American male authors since I am an Author as well. I encourage you if you have not fully surrender to God and obey His voice. God wants His Best for us Jeremiah 29:11. Your husband has been gone for 8 years and 8 represents new beginnings. Maybe your new beginning will be to start over with your life and get your own place. I am a witness that God will provide for a single women and make ways out of no ways. God takes care of His own. Philippians 4:19 and Proverb 3:5-6. Be encouraged. #SteppingOutonFaithDaretoDream

Author Gladys Peaches Kenney

Hon, this man is playing. Leave. Ur not married, just leave. God has His best for you. Become the best you that you can and watch God’s Best manifest 🙂

Sure it would!