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		By: Nick Russo		</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2020 15:51:29 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Women are just to easy now , soon no one will get married anymore , who wants to commit to a girl or guy who has had numerous partners]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women are just to easy now , soon no one will get married anymore , who wants to commit to a girl or guy who has had numerous partners</p>
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		By: Ryan Hirsch		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-518700</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ryan Hirsch]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2020 18:13:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I’m really struggling to accept the fact thatone of my closest friends had casual sex with my girlfriend now (we’ve been together for almost a year now and everything’s quite smooth) to the point that im seriously considering breaking up with her. 

Here’s the story:

I’ve always had a crush on Y (who became my girlfriend later on) and  she confessed that she had a crush on me too.  This happened BEFORE we began exclusively dating. One night, i invited her over to a house party where she met my friend (let’s call him X). Since i was busy entertaining other guests of mine, X and Y talked. X knew BEFOREHAND that I liked Y and that im planning to date her seriously. Despite this, she flirted with Y. They became good friends and X intended to date my her (although knowing X, he is just a guy who lures women by promising them relationships but his true motive is just to fuck them). X even asked permission from me if he can take her out. I did not respond. Fast forward, i discovered that my Y  had sex with X. 

I cannot accept this. 

What i cannot also accept is her reason that she did not really want to have sex with X, that she proclaims that she does not have casual sex, that she only has sex with boyfriends etc. Could this be possible? Could u have sex withkut wanting sex. I really dont buy this. 

I dunno if i should still try to convince myself if i can still accept it or not.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I’m really struggling to accept the fact thatone of my closest friends had casual sex with my girlfriend now (we’ve been together for almost a year now and everything’s quite smooth) to the point that im seriously considering breaking up with her. </p>
<p>Here’s the story:</p>
<p>I’ve always had a crush on Y (who became my girlfriend later on) and  she confessed that she had a crush on me too.  This happened BEFORE we began exclusively dating. One night, i invited her over to a house party where she met my friend (let’s call him X). Since i was busy entertaining other guests of mine, X and Y talked. X knew BEFOREHAND that I liked Y and that im planning to date her seriously. Despite this, she flirted with Y. They became good friends and X intended to date my her (although knowing X, he is just a guy who lures women by promising them relationships but his true motive is just to fuck them). X even asked permission from me if he can take her out. I did not respond. Fast forward, i discovered that my Y  had sex with X. </p>
<p>I cannot accept this. </p>
<p>What i cannot also accept is her reason that she did not really want to have sex with X, that she proclaims that she does not have casual sex, that she only has sex with boyfriends etc. Could this be possible? Could u have sex withkut wanting sex. I really dont buy this. </p>
<p>I dunno if i should still try to convince myself if i can still accept it or not.</p>
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		By: Barry Thomas		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-11526</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Barry Thomas]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 May 2017 21:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m in college (22) i found out that my girlfriend of 3 months (20) has sleep with 5 different guys on my football team in the last year and half. I found out about 3 of them through the grapevine (locker room talk, at the bar). Yesterday a teammate informed me about two more guys on the team that have smashed...... My ego is crushed. i always knew she had a past but i never wanted to talk about it. Sadly the past came to me. This is hard for me to stomach considering the fact I see these guys on a daily basis.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m in college (22) i found out that my girlfriend of 3 months (20) has sleep with 5 different guys on my football team in the last year and half. I found out about 3 of them through the grapevine (locker room talk, at the bar). Yesterday a teammate informed me about two more guys on the team that have smashed&#8230;&#8230; My ego is crushed. i always knew she had a past but i never wanted to talk about it. Sadly the past came to me. This is hard for me to stomach considering the fact I see these guys on a daily basis.</p>
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		By: Carin		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-11486</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Carin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2017 05:38:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m kinda in a dilemma at the moment, and I need help. So I just recently reconnected with an old friend, I use to mess around with. We had sex and are now texting everyday and talking all the time but problem is he lives in a different state so we don&#039;t hangout much only when he comes down to visit a couple times a year. This has been going on for about 4/5 months now, but I know it will never be serious bc he made it very clean he doesn&#039;t  want a relationship. A close friend of his has been hitting on me for a while now.. and I&#039;m wondering if it would be wrong of me to pursue this other man? ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m kinda in a dilemma at the moment, and I need help. So I just recently reconnected with an old friend, I use to mess around with. We had sex and are now texting everyday and talking all the time but problem is he lives in a different state so we don&#8217;t hangout much only when he comes down to visit a couple times a year. This has been going on for about 4/5 months now, but I know it will never be serious bc he made it very clean he doesn&#8217;t  want a relationship. A close friend of his has been hitting on me for a while now.. and I&#8217;m wondering if it would be wrong of me to pursue this other man? </p>
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		By: William Clearlake		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-10831</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[William Clearlake]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2016 20:32:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-9823&quot;&gt;Anonymous&lt;/a&gt;.

This. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-9823">Anonymous</a>.</p>
<p>This. </p>
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		By: KingOfFools		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-10423</link>

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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2015 02:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I Recently reconnected with an old friend from high school and we totally hit it off. Total chemistry for both of us and we&#039;ve spent every minute we could together. Only about three weeks or so have lapsed but it&#039;s really been great. A couple weeks into it my boy came up in conversation. I brought him up asking if she knew him and she said she did. I didn&#039;t think anything of it because we have dozens of mutual friends. Last night we were texting sweet messages to one another and boom. She lets me know that she smashed my boy who I&#039;d brought up a week earlier. All of those great feelings dissolved into absolute disappointment. She thought I had a right to know and she clearly regrets this one night stand. We weren&#039;t talking when they hooked up so there&#039;s no element of drama or cheating, etc. I&#039;m not the least bit mad at her. Just really disappointed to hear it. I mean that&#039;s my boy and I&#039;m repulsed by the thought of seriously dating her knowing that he&#039;s been there. Shame really. I like to be able to get over it but I&#039;m not seeing how. I hate to punish her for it. She really didn&#039;t do anything wrong. Any advice that might help me get over it and keep seeing this woman?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I Recently reconnected with an old friend from high school and we totally hit it off. Total chemistry for both of us and we&#8217;ve spent every minute we could together. Only about three weeks or so have lapsed but it&#8217;s really been great. A couple weeks into it my boy came up in conversation. I brought him up asking if she knew him and she said she did. I didn&#8217;t think anything of it because we have dozens of mutual friends. Last night we were texting sweet messages to one another and boom. She lets me know that she smashed my boy who I&#8217;d brought up a week earlier. All of those great feelings dissolved into absolute disappointment. She thought I had a right to know and she clearly regrets this one night stand. We weren&#8217;t talking when they hooked up so there&#8217;s no element of drama or cheating, etc. I&#8217;m not the least bit mad at her. Just really disappointed to hear it. I mean that&#8217;s my boy and I&#8217;m repulsed by the thought of seriously dating her knowing that he&#8217;s been there. Shame really. I like to be able to get over it but I&#8217;m not seeing how. I hate to punish her for it. She really didn&#8217;t do anything wrong. Any advice that might help me get over it and keep seeing this woman?</p>
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		By: D. Jinx		</title>
		<link>https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-10064</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[D. Jinx]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2015 02:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-9748&quot;&gt;JLK&lt;/a&gt;.

You sound very young. Do you really need an answer to this?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://www.stephanspeaks.com/slept-friend/#comment-9748">JLK</a>.</p>
<p>You sound very young. Do you really need an answer to this?</p>
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