but they still cheated like no tomorrow.

That’s ridiculous. So you’re saying a man has never been used? Gold diggers are a good example of this, strippers and prostitutes literally make a living doing this.
I personally have had booty calls who fell for me, completely unreciprocated. I’ve had this happen with men who were supposedly “players”. I’ve also had feelings that weren’t reciprocated, and that sucked. Humans feel. Men and women are capable of individuality and it’s insulting & harmful to everyone to make shit up about entire genders.

I also really dislike shopping and do most of it online, with Amazon subscription so I don’t need to reorder things. Only thing I go to the physical store for I’d clothing as I am difficult to size. Apparently proportionately shaped women are rare, so on top I’m anywhere from extra small to medium, bottoms are anywhere from 2-6, and dresses I’m one size for top measurements and another for bottoms, so anywhere from a 2-4 with tailoring to suit whichever half is poorly fitted. It’s very annoying. I want to tailor make a few outfits so I don’t need to go out to get clothes either.

Have you ever considered maybe men commit the majority of crimes and physical violence, including wars and rape, because society decided men are only allowed to feel lust and anger? Are you aware that in Shakespearean times, women were considered too logical and emotionless to be a part of arts and theatre? Men were considered emotional and heart driven, able to understand theatre and arts. Isn’t it odd the change in roles, with whatever men identify as being the ‘better’ way to be? It’s almost as if men and women are cable of logic & emotions. Almost like they’re both human beings.

Maybe women want sex and enjoy it rather than “giving in”. If you think sex is something a woman gives into or a gift to men, you’ve been having some pretty terrible sex.

I recommend masturbating to discover how to get off and learning to communicate sexual needs and desires with a partner, then you’ll most likely discover why many women have enjoyable sex with their dates.

That’s ridiculous. Men want love and to be loved, too. Plenty of women successfully have casual sex without feeling “empty”.
I’ve slept with men who have gotten feelings when I wanted causal sex. When I ended it, they felt “empty”. On the contrast, I’ve fallen in love and didn’t have it reciprocated. After it ended, I was heartbroken. I’d imagine I would be after a breakup where no sex occured and I were in love.
I’ve also slept with a man hoping for me, his acting like he wanted more, only to be ghosted by him after sex a couple times. Was I hurt? Yes, but not because of the sex, because of the lying and immaturity.
Humans are complicated beings. Men aren’t from Mars and women aren’t from Venus. We’re all from Earth and we’re all the same species.
I’d appreciate if you would stop taking your experience and applying it to all women. Women are individuals. We aren’t a hive-mind, we’re not a monolith being, and we don’t have ultimate knowledge of what women would think, feel, or how they would react to any situation, except for yourself personally.
I’m so sick of this “women want love and men want sex” bullshit. What? Women don’t get horny and masterbate over a man they’ve never slept with? Women don’t want to have sex, experience sexual pleasure, or have orgasms? And men don’t have feelings except lust? Men can’t be best friends and lovers with women? Men can’t go from a fling to falling in love?
Those are both insulting ideas to both genders and only cause more ambiguity and pain than what it’s worth.

Just an hour ago, All i got was this
“Hey can’t afford juice will have to wait till pay day. Hope u feeling better”
Keep in mind ive seen him 4 times and he has flaked out on plans each time to just reappear few days later.
My reply:
“Hey i wouldn’t have asked for juice if i knew that, im sorry. However you did this pattern again : Bring up texting me today to make solid plan for going to the movies And flaking out about it. Btw it costs nothing to show care for someone by stopping by to say hello in person. the little time i known you you done this too much. I wouldn’t be friends with someone i just met flaking out this much.
I dont need to explain details, you’ll just invent some stupid excuse for your shitty behavior. I regret ever touching you All u did was disappoint me ‘n get me sick. You never even cared to know about me or my life. U werent a friend to me just a douche looking for easy sex. F**k off. ”
Then i blocked him.

Its in my nature to doubt myself and prioritize the mans possible side. This time i did opposite and I feel good about myself. Though i let it drag too long i feel i atleast nipped it in the bud with some dignity in that text.

In my case we were good friends for 2 yrs and when we started dating he never touched me for months. We get along great. He has to let go of a woman he fell for it took months she has no Interest. Things. got very good for 6 months and I was so happy but the last time I saw him he told me we are both single and he will date around this summer hes a golfer. Then he said your the best woman for me you keep me grounded like no one else can. Then he said there is a 62 yr old lady whose married they are attracted to each other. She ran into him and invited him to her home as her husband is away. He said he will go but no sex will take place well why go! So he will update me this is what I have to hear he knows i love him but he does not love me as much. I’m so broken I never felt so happy with a man in 17 yrs now…

I’m the same way. Women who know they are value to hold themselves at a discount. They are strong and remain that way until they meet a good man who appreciates and deserves their integrity.