Comments on: Why Did I Get Married?

By: CB

CB — Wed, 29 Dec 2021 12:48:18 +0000

She wants to make excuses. She wasn't taught this and that. Please! She learned to do other things, without help. Now, we live in the age of information. She wasn't without. I'm assuming her decisions were all based on sex. She was "saved" now and still wanted the sex, but didn't want to be in sin. So, she married him, even though he wasn't what she wanted. She's now doing better and he's the same. She's maybe experienced new, better sex with someone who has their life together. So, sex with her husband doesn't work, unless she's fantasizing about this new guy. IdK! That's what I get from her writing. This is all her doing, so she has to do what she already know needs to be done to fix/undo it.

By: Ms.Anaya

Ms.Anaya — Sat, 09 Mar 2013 04:08:00 +0000

This is what so many woman do, compromise themselves, their values and needs. I noticed that she knew he was lazy but still settled. Interesting. Maybe it was her wishful thinking. Well It’s a lesson learned and I’m sure she is so much stronger & hopefully dropped the dead weight.

By: Bigtimer1254

Bigtimer1254 — Tue, 01 Jan 2013 11:54:00 +0000

That is what a real woman should do. And stop hanging on to these useless men, that women refuse to let go despite everything that he’s been putting you through.You know what I mean? And become a thinker and elevate yourself.

By: Cherry B.

Cherry B. — Fri, 09 Nov 2012 19:17:00 +0000

I dont feel sorry for her at all. This man was obviously not her type but she still had sex with him anyway unprotected at that. She just lied to herself all those years and then blamed it on him. I had a ex fiance just like this I never married him WHY because I probably would have been writing this story not her. Ladies stop blaming everyone but yourselves for the situations you are in. Saying that he comes from a lazy family just makes you look bad find a man with your work ethic if that’s what you want. At the end of the day that will always be the father of your child and you have to live with that for the rest of your life. We women like to think we can mold these men into what we want but the reality is God is the only one that can do that. So as for this story umm hope you are divorced and never make the same mistake again and you start accepting responsiblity for your mistakes and please stop blaming your mother also you are a grown woman.

By: Tit4Tat73

Tit4Tat73 — Thu, 23 Aug 2012 02:54:00 +0000

Obviously, this young woman is confused, and anyone who marries a person THEN expect change is confused as well. I said before that most marriages don’t last because the things you accepted before and when you get married, you usually can’t stand as you go along in the marriage. Most times age plays a factor because you grow up and learn who you are and no longer want the thug, the gang banger, the drug dealer, the under and unemployed, the party king/queen, the ’round the way girl, the stash holder, the Bonnie to your Clyde. What was cute and accepting is now a deal breaker, this young lady is case in point. She said she knew she was a meal ticket? Well, darling, marriage makes you an official meal ticket, and you’re actually w/in your right to be that, if you will. It’s no one’s business because it’s her husband and she’s his wife. Well, she said she got married because she got “saved”; I say, let that same “saved” mentality “save” your marriage. Even at the lowest of low in your marriage, I say…..but God!

By: StephanLabossiere

StephanLabossiere — Wed, 30 May 2012 14:07:00 +0000

In reply to Bern Hall. it is unfortunate, but I am hoping many can learn from it.

By: Bern Hall

Bern Hall — Tue, 29 May 2012 12:52:00 +0000

Wow this is really sad!!