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3 Things You Should Always Tell Your Woman

When it comes to relationships a lot of us men could use some help in knowing how to make things better. We don’t always understand women (if ever for some) but we have to learn the things we can improve upon when we are in or want to be in a relationship. What they feel should be common sense to us sometimes eludes our minds. So to try to help correct that issue I give you 3 things you should always tell your woman.

Tell Your Woman The Truth

I completely understand how difficult it can be to be completely honest with women. We feel many can’t handle the truth and sometimes the truth might get us a slashed tire or a verbal lashing. What we are failing to realize is that with every lie you tell your partner you setup a bigger downfall later. Lies eventually come out and when they do the trust level in your relationship takes a bigger hit. That can lead into other issues and the deterioration of your relationship. We men have to learn that a lot of times it’s not what you say but how you say it. Yes some things are going to get negative backlash regardless but when the smoke clears you won’t have compounded the issues with more lies. Honesty may not always be what we want but it is what we need. For those of you thinking “well if I told her the truth then she may leave me.” My suggestion to you is to stop doing things you will feel the need to lie about to your partner. Or just accept that maybe you’re not ready for a serious relationship and need to take some time to grow.

Tell Your Woman She Is Beautiful

I don’t care if she just woke up looking like a train just hit her. You should always be able to look your woman in the eye and tell her how beautiful she is. What may seem like a simple gesture to you can mean so much to your woman. She wants to know you desire her and think highly of her. Trying to get some ass from her on a regular is cool (in regards to showing desire) but it isn’t going to speak to her heart like telling her how much she means to you and how beautiful she is. Many of us men tend to overlook the simple things that hold a lot of meaning to a woman. Compliments can be very important. This doesn’t mean you have to say these things every single day because it may start losing its impact (consult with your woman on that because this opinion can vary). Just make sure you make an effort to do it often and be genuine with it. Side Note: If you already have the habit of telling your woman how sexy she is that’s great. Just understand that is not the same thing as telling her she is beautiful. Many women may view “sexy” as something more sexual while “beautiful” speaks more to her as a person.

Tell Your Woman Your Business

I already know what many are thinking. “Why the hell does she need to know all my business?”…”What happened to respecting people’s privacy?”…”She knows too damn much already” and so on. I get it but in my opinion I feel that this isn’t the best way to think in a relationship. If you are serious about the woman you are with then it is important to let her into your world. That doesn’t mean you can’t have some space and do you. It just means allowing her to be aware of things, opening up to her more, and sharing your life with her. This will only strengthen the bond of the relationship and that is a great thing. Choosing to exclude her will open the door to other issues. It gets a little harder to trust someone when you don’t know what the hell is going on in their life. You run the risk of making her feel less valued and less loved. You also make it easier for people outside the relationship to have a negative impact on it. If you can’t let her in to your world then why be with her. Either she isn’t the one for you or you have some things that you need to work through.

I genuinely believe that doing these three things will absolutely improve your relationship. Of course with #1 you may have a rough and unpleasant experience. If you can overcome that obstacle than slowly but surely things will improve as you continue with being honest. The goal is to move in a more positive direction and we men have plenty to work on to make sure this happens. Don’t read this article and then talk about what she is or isn’t doing. Just focus on what you can control which is your actions and your approach to the relationship. Set the tone and lead by example.

25 Comments
  • Lena Jenkins
    Posted at 12:45h, 27 November Reply

    Awesome article!

  • Moses
    Posted at 13:03h, 27 November Reply

    1) Agree
    2) Agree
    3) Agrre

  • Blk416
    Posted at 17:50h, 27 November Reply

    Great article!

  • Sheeko
    Posted at 08:59h, 24 January Reply

    Love it!

  • Pamagneta
    Posted at 14:20h, 24 January Reply

    The truth.

  • Sarah
    Posted at 20:05h, 27 January Reply

    Very well said & simple enough! I would venture to say women can benefit from doing these things as well (except replace beautiful with handsome).

  • Toy With Me
    Posted at 17:01h, 13 February Reply

    Great post!  Hopefully your male followers will follow your lead.

  • JennyT
    Posted at 12:06h, 29 March Reply

    Now we need the other side: 3 Things you should always tell your man, please….

  • adrienne
    Posted at 03:59h, 08 June Reply

    Love this

  • dr jones
    Posted at 06:08h, 03 July Reply

    I love it

  • Ashford Charleus
    Posted at 01:51h, 25 July Reply

    This reads like a woman wrote this. IDK.

  • James Williams
    Posted at 02:31h, 25 July Reply

    So when she asks "does these jeans make me look fat?" Do I answer yes?

  • Philos Mudis
    Posted at 02:58h, 25 July Reply

    Lead by example. Love that.

  • Stephan Speaks Relationships
    Posted at 20:20h, 21 September Reply

    When you're ready to have an intelligent discussion about your disagreement, let me know.

  • Stephan Speaks Relationships
    Posted at 20:22h, 21 September Reply

    It's not what you say, but how you say it. Not being honest will start to have its negative impact, and can easily create other issues. If a person can't handle honesty delivered in a positive, constructive manner, then the issue isn't honesty, but their inability to handle it.

  • Anonymous
    Posted at 09:04h, 25 October Reply

    i just luv reading everything it is very informational. especially for me to get more information which is very much needed due to the harsh things i have experience in my previous marriage. keep up the good work

  • Ebony L. Clay
    Posted at 16:03h, 30 October Reply

    This is a great article. To bad there aren't too many men out who follow these examples.

  • Anecia Carter
    Posted at 14:06h, 18 November Reply

    U hit it again my friend. Sharing today! 🙂

  • Comec'ko Webber
    Posted at 20:05h, 07 December Reply

    Awesome article!

  • Shimmy Shan
    Posted at 23:02h, 07 December Reply

    That's easy! That's all?

  • Gwen Stemmerding
    Posted at 00:49h, 08 December Reply

    He's right on!! Would like to read his books.

  • Zoe Rhys
    Posted at 07:53h, 08 December Reply

    He does this and really opens up about his stuff…..theres no sex involved but he opens up to me alot….something he doesn't do with anyone else……I don't know what that means. ….does he see me as a friend or more because there has been romantic under currents…..he feels he isn't at a good place as a provider….he says he likes me alot and his actions show. ….am not sure what to do. …..wait……or keep things moving as he sorts himself out?

  • Maishago Shai
    Posted at 17:22h, 09 March Reply

    Clearly, dude aint in a relationship with a black woman.

  • Jesse Kichuna
    Posted at 19:03h, 26 March Reply

    come to me then akiwa ready whenever that wud b ud go to him,coz hes the centre of ua universe?!!! you only live once

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