During Summer times all guys like to have their own version of ‘hot girl Summer’, but when it gets cold there’s no more clubbing, partying, and late nights with the guys….
So he needs something a little more solid to hold him over until the weather warms up again.
find out if you got yourself something serious or if you’re just another cuddle season boo that he will drop sOon as the sun sticks its head out to play:
1. He’s Only Interested in Spending Time When He’s Not Busy (BORED)
You’re his LAST priority. Not saying a man shouldn’t have a life, but if he plans on making you more than a seasonal trend making time for you even when life throws a lot as us is key. There’s no such thing as I’m too busy. Just means “you’re not a priority”.
2. He Doesn’t Speak About Your Relationship in Future Tense
This is a big one and easy to miss. When he’s talking about his future plans does he ever mention ‘us’ or ‘you’ at all??? Meaning past this Winter. After the holidays. Summer trips. Spring dates. What your plans are in the future so he can make sure he’s a part of them! If everything is about the now then plan on staying in his past once his lonely Winter passes.
3. You’re Only Good for ‘Netflix & Chill’ Hours
I know “no not me I wouldn’t let that happen” but let’s be honest! It happens to the best of us. Just wanting something (lonely your damn self) so you don’t notice that the only time you’re spending any quality time is at night. Over his house. Or at your house. No real romantic effort or nights on the town to show you that you’re meaningful to him and he wants to show you off! Don’t get me wrong nothing wrong with a little movie night or spending quality time in the house…
These are just 3 red flags to lookout for when dealing with men to know if he’s taking you serious!
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4 thoughts on “It’s Cuffing Season 3 Signs He’s Only With You Because He’s Lonely”
Wishing I read your books before I got into this 8years relationship that became very toxic that I lost myself. Still trying to heal. Not dating just want to be better and heal from all toxic relationships without beating myself up with the past hurt and pain that I caused and other has done to me. I also have difficulty expressing myself whether its feelings or how I want the beautician to style my hair. In the meantime I will try to book your coaching program because I need some assistance.
Are you knowledgeable in two elderly people coming together after many years who once were deeply in love and distance is in the way? Oh both still very sexual.
He Has A “Girl,” He Is With Who He Tells Me He’s NEVER Been Attracted To, But She Chased Him For 2 Years, Coming Into His Business Location . . . Til She Gained The Courage To Approach Him, So Being Lonely At The Time, He “Settled For Her.”
Now That He’s Met Me, “The Queen Mother” “Sweet Rose,” “Princess Black, “Earth Angel” “The Woman He’s Wanted His Whole Life,” THE ONE He Is Learning To TRUST,” (“He LOVES & Has The UTMOST RESPECT For, LIKE He Has For His MOM ! Who Just Made Her Transition Last May, 2021 & He Went Home To Jamaica To Intern In June, 2021.)
He Has ONLY JUST Begun To Allow Himself To Actually Grieve His TREMENDOUS Loss In December, 2021, Triggered By His Realization That He, “… Can No Longer Send MY MOM The Annual $200 Christmas GIFT!,” That He’s Been Sending EVERY YEAR SINCE COMIN TO AMERICA IN 1994. . . (& He Buried His Younger Brother Who Past Away From A Heart Attack A Number Of Years Ago….. However, His Only Younger Sister Who Lives Out Of The Country Depends Highly On Him Still . . .He Has Been Husband/Daddy/Brother To Them A L L + He Has 5 Children From A Broken Home/Marriage As Well . . . Yet Operates A Booming Import/Export Business From Which He Only Just Began To Take Some Time-Off For Himself At My Spiritual Promptings/Suggesting For The FIRST TIME EVER . . .
I Am Twice-Ordained In Christian Ministry In The Metaphysical As Well As In The Traditional Churches. I Raised 4 Of My 5 Children As A Single-Parent Also . . . I “Little-Parented,” & Buried My Parents (Both Victims Of Suicidal Deaths & Was Widowed At Age 26 (When My Age 32 Japanese/Black Political-Prisoner Husband Took His Own Life Too . . .)
I Am Now Age 71 And My Friend Is Age 66. We BOTH Acknowledge That We Are Formed AND Spiritually Fashioned By G O D For Each Other . . . And We SIMPLY LOVE EACH OTHER
WITH TREMENDOUS FERVOR AND CONNECTION. WE FERVENTLY PRAAAY WITH/FOR EACH OTHER ALSO . . . . .
WE DO OUR UTMOST BEST (WE HAVE NEVER BEEN SEXUALLY INTIMATE WITH EACH OTHER, ALTHOUGH VERY STRONGLY ATTRACTED); AND LET ALMIGHTY G O D DO
A L L THE R E S T AT SUCH A TIME AS THIS . . . . .
I APPRECIATE YOUR WORDS OF SPECIFIC CLARIFICATION AND ENCOURAGEMENT TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY . . . STAY SAFE & K E E P P E A C E W I T H I N . . .