Oral Sex: Give Her What She Needs!

Posted by Stephan Labossiere in Advice for Men, Intimacy, Marriage | 83 comments

We’re talking oral sex so let’s get straight to it. I am surprised by the amount of married men that do not see the greatness of giving their wives oral sex. Look we are all adults so don’t get all uptight. I want to help many of you reading this have more fulfilling relationships and sexual pleasure plays into that. If you are a guy and have yet to embrace giving your woman oral sex, well today is the day my friend.

If any man has uttered the words “that’s gross” or “ewww” while reading this, I hope you are willing to put that mentality behind you and open your mind. Allow me to help you begin to understand why you need to pleasure your woman with oral sex.

At least 70% of women don’t reach an orgasmic climax through intercourse alone.

That’s right, you can be much more effective with your tongue than you can be with your “tool”. Don’t get me wrong, there are some woman who prefer penetration over oral sex but there is no doubt that if you know what you are doing down there, you can have a great impact on a woman’s sexual satisfaction. Not to mention that by properly implementing oral sex, you can enhance the sexual experience while you are engaged in vaginal intercourse. This is simply a great way to bring most women pleasure and to increase their ability to have an orgasm. Because truth is, no man is going to be on top of his game every sexual experience. So it is necessary to do all that you can to satisfy her which will increase your frequency of sexual activity and make it much more enjoyable for the both of you.

Tongues don’t need Viagra.

Really, have you ever heard of an impotent tongue? I don’t see any male enhancement drugs for it either. Why? Because it comes built to last buddy, so put the damn thing to work. You don’t have to worry about all the extra things that can play into it being ineffective. You just have to learn how to use it properly on your woman and you are good to go. So why not take advantage of that through oral sex? Some of you are going to war with a knife when you have a machine gun locked and loaded. If you have a “small knife”, well that is even more reason to utilize the big guns. I could continue to emphasize this point but I am sure you get it. Use the tools you are given to enhance the sexual experience for her, or risk having your woman become less interested and willing to engage in sexual activity with you.

This was just an introduction to this topic of oral sex. You can look forward to future post diving deeper and getting into technique, reasons why men choose not to give oral sex, etc. I’m sure some of the men are thinking “why is this man trying to advocate for pleasuring these women but not for us”. Well, I will address oral sex as it pertains to women giving it as well in a future post. I just decided to first attempt to help men develop a mentality that focuses on pleasing your partner and focusing more on her needs. When you become a giver you enhance the things that you will then be able to receive. Taking care of her sexual needs is as much for you as it is for her. Being selfish isn’t going to make things better or more fulfilling. You may get what you want today but you will eventually pay a price that you will not be happy with. Changing that attitude will do you wonders and a willingness to please her with oral sex can be a step in the right direction.

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