16 Feb You Gotta Do More Than Just Lick It!
How To Get A Woman To Have Sex With You…If You’re Her Husband – Chp. 4 Book Excerpt
RULE#2: Foreplay is not limited to right before having sex!
We men have got to understand that women are not like us, and therefore it can be a longer process getting her in the mood. The 10 minutes or less of messing around pre-sex isn’t always going to cut it. Look at it like this, men are like standard light switches that you can just flick on or off (we pretty much just stay on 24/7), and women are like the switches with the knobs that you have to turn to make the light bright (it’s like a slow turning when we are talking about some women).
There are a variety of ways you can get the process started such as: sending her naughty text messages and emails, rubbing her leg while in the car, doing something nice and meaningful earlier that day, public displays of affection (i.e.: deep kiss, holding hands, rubbing her lower back, etc), and so on. Believe it or not, and this may surprise you, but cleaning the house could really get her going (if you’re typically not the type to do so). Let her come home one day and see you washing dishes (if you’re physically fit, let her catch you with your shirt off cleaning the dishes for a bigger impact), and watch how her eyes fill with a lustful desire to “put it on you.”
So with all that said, understand that you have to start planting seeds as early as that morning, or even the day before. I’m not saying that you should give her a warning in advance that you’re going to want to have sex. I’m saying that you start doing the little things in advance so that by the time you get to the pre-sex workout, her knob will have already been turned, and you just have to finish it off to have her light shining bright. So do things like compliment her, say sexy things to her, and just don’t do anything stupid. I know we don’t like to think ahead, but if you want more action you better put on your military hat and do a pre-emptive strike.
RULE# 3: Oral Sex: Do it Before, During, and After Sex!